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J.T. Ellison's avatar

I used a Moleskine for a decade then switched to Clairefontaines. I love them both, and I'm super happy to be back in the Pro version. The numbered pages are so awesome!

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Amy Stukenholtz's avatar

It's so important to take care of yourself, both mentally and physically!!

The Unmaking of June Farrow was an incredible book and I didn't see the ending coming...so good!!

I read The Missing Witness by Allison Brennan. I love all of her books and this was excellent!

I also read The Night Island by the wonderful Jayne Ann Krentz. I watched a little bit of your Facebook live with her, but I need to go back and finish it.

It's almost spring like here this week in Nebraska, but it's just Feb...I'm sure winter isn't done with us yet!

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

I'll finish June on the way to PT this morning - can't wait. Agree about Allison AND Jayne! What a joy to have them in our lives, right?

Warm here too... but will it last? My crocuses are coming up, so maybe...

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Kristine Neeley's avatar

I think your decision to streamline and make room for further healing is so, so wise. It’s amazing how much time it can take but it’s worth it, and you cannot be everywhere and everything to everyone!

I love the B5 size! I use a moleskin hardcover dotted notebook for my work logbook and I just love the way that size feels, it’s about the same as all my other assorted notebooks: planner, morning pages, project planner, which I love, too.

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

Thank you. My natural tendency to want to make everyone better is roaring today. Putting my needs first is not my forte. But hey! It all worked seamlessly!

I think B stands for Best size. I added a new type of pen that Anne Bogel recommended, the TŪL .5 in blue, and it's a great companion. Rivializing my beloved Sharpie .5s!

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Kristine Neeley's avatar

Funny you mention blue ink! I used to use it exclusively in high school and early college, and lately, I’ve been pondering a return! I’ve heard great things about TŪL, but haven’t tried them yet.

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

They're really nice1 Straight, no curves, and the letdown is lovely. And yeah, even in fountain pens I go blue-black. Always been a thing. 💙

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Diane Yateman's avatar

I’m reading The Key to Living a Contented Life by Mary Flaherty, very insightful! I’m looking forward to reading The Women by Kristin Hannah when it comes out next week.

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

Well that just made me take a nice deep breath! Sounds like a wonderful book! And I bet we see a LOT of Kristin fans in the next couple of weeks!

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Erin Alford's avatar

I was planning on starting First Lie Wins last night, but Amina Ahktar’s Almost Surely Dead came out yesterday so I had to start that! I’m also 3 books behind on Allison Brennan’s books. So I have to fix that!

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

I hope your week was better!!!

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Erin Alford's avatar

Thank you! It was definitely less crazy.

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Rachael Dahl's avatar

I read ALMOST SURELY DEAD this week. I'll be interested to hear what you think next week about it.

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Olivia Barry's avatar

I'm always behind. So many books to read, so little time.🤗

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Rachael Dahl's avatar

This is me!!!

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Nicole Keulen's avatar

I just finished The Library at Mount Char by Scott Hawkins, because another writer said this was the best book ever. And its weird, violent and fun. Very interesting and needs to be reread.

Now started Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zevin. Impressive.

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

I have Gabrielle's book on my TBR shelf. I really need to bump it up. The Hawkins book sounds SUPER cool!

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Heather Bell Adams's avatar

I like a drugstore spiral notebook or an XL (?) Moleskine. I used to be a InkJoy gel pen devotee but I need a new favorite; the InkJoys are too fine/dry -- I need something with a little more presence on the page for my aging eyes. :-)

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

Try the TŪL, or the workhorse, Sharpie's .5 or .7. They're all super!!!

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Heather Bell Adams's avatar

Thank you so much! I will try them. :-)

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Rachael Dahl's avatar

I'm glad to read that you're taking control of your health. I find it inspiring when a person is real about the messiness of their life. (along with the good.) So sorry you cried. I, myself, had a meltdown last weekend when my husband returned from a weeklong work trip. I realized I was lonely, but I hadn't realized he was the substitute for all my friends back in Colorado until he was gone. I'm trying to connect with my community in an online way and figure out here in Texas how to make new connections. My friend from Tennessee has a new job, and sadly, she's so busy we don't meet up anymore. So, I'm needing to branch out more. I signed up for a conference here in Dallas in June and one of my friends is meeting up with me to go to it too. Something to look forward to.

I'm glad you enjoyed THE HEIRESS and are reading THE FIRST LIE WINS. I agree the unreliable narrator is enjoying a great run. I read Ahmina Akhtar's ALMOST SURELY DEAD. It was a fun read, and I'm intrigued by other cultures' folklore, especially jinns. I started V.E. Schwab's THE FRAGILE THREADS OF POWER. For some reason, I couldn't get into it, and I'm 90 pages in. I'm not sure why it's not working for me, but I decided today to put it aside and start a different book. I'm not sure yet what it'll be.

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

I find that for me, tears are usually a release of frustration more than sadness. I cry when I'm angry, too. Emotions... it's something I'm working on! Bottling them up isn't helpful, is it. I'm so glad you're reaching out to new folks in your town. There's really nothing harder than moving, and having people move into new stages of their lives. Is there an indie bookstore nearby? Or a B&N? The library, too. They may have some events where you can meet cool folks.

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Rachael Dahl's avatar

It seems like we might have more in common than just Colorado. I cry when I'm frustrated and angry too. I try hard not to, but sometimes it can't be helped. The closest library is a thirty-five-minute drive one way and our B&N just shut down. All of that has also been hard as I was used to going to The Tattered Cover for events and to a library for my SinC meetings. The local chapter here meets on a day that unfortunately conflicts with other family obligations. As far as I know there aren't any indie bookstores close to me. I WILL get this figured out, but it's been slow going so far.

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

You do know that my dislocation upon moving to Nashville is why I became a writer, yeah? I turned inward, for years, before finally finding the community I loved. It will happen.

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Rachael Dahl's avatar

I did not know that! One of my good friends lost her brother last week and she sent me this quote it. I love it!

Life is amazing. And then it’s awful. And then it’s amazing again. And in between the amazing and awful it’s ordinary and mundane and routine. Breathe in the amazing, hold on through the awful, and relax and exhale during the ordinary. That’s just living – heartbreaking, soul-healing, amazing, awful, ordinary life. And it’s breathtakingly beautiful.

L.R. Knost

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

Beautiful!

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Erin Alford's avatar

Are you comfortable sharing what part of Texas you are in? Maybe someone I know in this amazing crime fiction family is in your same area or can help point to bookish places/people to connect with. I don’t know tons of TX people but I know a few.

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Rachael Dahl's avatar

Oh sure I’m in Argyle Texas. It’s the Dallas/Fort Worth area but in the most remote part of it. I have to drive 20-25 minutes to get to a grocery story.

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Rachael Dahl's avatar

And thank you!

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Erin Alford's avatar

Dallas has a bookstore called Intrabang Books. I’ve been to a couple virtual event there. They have a monthly in store books club I believe and virtual options I think. Author events and signings. It would be a good place to start to connect with people in your area.

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Rachael Dahl's avatar

Thank you!

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Diane Soares's avatar

I'm sorry to read about the EDS diagnosis. Pain is never fun. I think breaking down at yoga was your body telling you, it's not fooling around. I hope rest helps. You seem to always be doing 25 things at once. We will be here even if you slow down some.

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

Thank you Diane. As funny as it might sound, I am so relieved to finally know why my body does what it does, and to be able to take real steps forward that don't involve surgical interventions. Huge. But yes -- that release is huge. We hold so much tension in our bodies that we don't even realize.

I promise I am slowing down a bit!

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Brandee's avatar

#FridayReads

House of Bone and Rain by Gabino Iglesias

Out of the Blue by Jason June

Past Crimes by Jason Pinter

Starling House by Alix E. Harrow

The London Séance Society by Sarah Penner

The Secret Garden of Yanagi Inn by Amber Logan

Sending lots of love and hugs, JT. Aging is no joke, and making physical and mental health a priority is a tough job. If you haven't already read it, I highly recommend The Secret Garden of Yanagi Inn by Amber Logan. It's a lovely Gothic adult retelling of the children's book The Secret Garden set in Japan. It also handles grief and pain beautifully. I am slowly savoring it.

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

Oh that sounds like an absolutely wonderful book! Thank you for that!

I told my ortho one day this getting old shit was hard, and he says you're just growing up at last. I liked that phrase.

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Brandee's avatar

Aww! Good doctors are gems, aren't they?

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

And I am in mourning because he just retired. We've been together 30 years!!! Who will put me together again?

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Brandee's avatar

My first rheumatologist hated telling me he was moving out of the system I am part of. He actually hugged me goodbye after telling me that he had to think long and hard about moving away from patients he enjoyed seeing like me. Luckily, my current rheumatologist is also a great doctor.

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Sarah Knight's avatar

I read FIRST LIE WINS recently too and enjoyed it. I’m a fan of unreliable narrators—just finished NO ONE CAN KNOW by Kate Alice Marshall which is in a very similar vein.

I’m curious, how do you “automate” your Substack posts to go out to your other SM platforms? Or do you just mean manually sharing the link upon publishing, through Substack’s “share to” buttons?

Also: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ (you definitely deserve the gold stars for that outline!)

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

Thank you for the stars! I am beside myself excited. We'll see if it makes the writing go faster -- surely it will!

So I have a service called Dlvr.it that you can hook your RSS feed to, and the moment your post goes up here, it will shoot the RSS feed out to whatever sm you choose. I have it set to go to FB, FB group, Twitter, Instagram, and Bluesky. I've used Buffer in the past as well, and set up Zapiers and IFFFT, but Dlvr.it has always been really reliable. It posts the pics without the Substack branding on the photo or in the link, which is both good and bad, but let's be honest, the other socials are totally metering access to Substack content, so at least it's a chance to get it out there.

And it means that I do nothing but publish, then sit back and enjoy the conversation.

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Sarah Knight's avatar

Aha! Thanks for the info. I am definitely going to look into Dlvr.it... (after I Google "What is an RSS feed?") :-P

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

LOL You can find the RSS feed for your publication at https://your.substack.com/feed.

Replace "your" with the name of your Substack publication.

It's the feed of your blog that goes to folks RSS readers, like Feedly, etc. Mine also already feeds to Goodreads and Amazon.

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Sarah Knight's avatar

Every day’s a school day 😂

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Olivia Barry's avatar

Oh, I hope yoga will help you feel better. I've been practicing yoga for many years and what i love the most about it, there's no competition. It's all about you and your body. I don't bend like a pretzel 😂, and nobody cares. My favorite notebook comes in different sizes. I use the large one. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07BH7J8YB/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

Hi there! It really is helping. What’s funny is I am Gumby, and they’re trying to rein that in, making me only go 50% of the way. THAT is a challenge.

Love the notebook! That looks like it creates a really nice archive.

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Olivia Barry's avatar

Haha, I get it. It's not always easy to do less. I'm happy to hear that it helps. ~ 🥰

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Sabrina Thatcher's avatar

Oh dip! (The Good Place - IYKYK) I didn’t see the hypermobile EDS bit before…I just started physical therapy this week for the same thing. Very very over being in pain and would like to continue to be mobile for the next 40 years. I’m proud of you for getting diagnosed and taking the steps to make your body stronger.

This week I read Ragdoll by Daniel Cole. I loved the mystery of how the detectives had to discover who the 6 bodies parts belonged and why they were targeted. The first half had a chokehold on me. The last half…a little disappointing. I don’t think I’ll continue the series but I would recommend to readers of Nadine Matheson and Chris Carter.

I’m also working my way through Story Genius. I struggle to read craft books because I get too excited and want to go back to my book and never finish! So my goal is to make it a priority book for Feb.

Tonight I’m starting How I’ll Kill You by Ren DeStefano.

Cheers to a new month! 💜

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

No kidding? You are doing the same PT? Incredible! There's so much to learn about it, too. They say having an incurable disease diagnosis isn't always a good thing, but for EDS, the more you can learn, the better. I'm proud of you, too!

I have the same issue with craft books. I try to stick with the more amorphous ones than the specifics. Makes it easier to wrench yourself away.

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Sabrina Thatcher's avatar

I haven’t been formally diagnosed but working on it - in the meantime starting the PT for hypermobility . I’ve been in chronic pain for several years and 🤞🏻 this makes the difference!! For both of us!

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

It’s the only one of the 13 EDS that doesn’t show up on the genetic tests yet. It will soon, I’m sure. The Beighton scoring is pretty accurate.

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Sabrina Thatcher's avatar

🤦🏻‍♀️ This needs an edit button

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Shelley (aka Michelle Kubitz)'s avatar

I am reading The Fragile Threads of Power by V.E. Schwab. (Need to see/watch your conversation!) Also reading Clouded Waters by MN author Dianna Hunter.

For notebooks, I'm having the weirdest luck with a steno notebook I bought at Office Max. I've been keeping my current WIP notes there along with some journaling. It just feels good.

Keep taking care, JT.

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

Superb book, the first in a new series is always hard and I think V pulls it off!

And hey, don't mess with success, yeah?

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Nichole's avatar

All of this was such a great reminder that slow is also forward. I set myself up for some pretty fast deadlines, while finishing my degree, being a mom, training for a marathon, and trying to move into a new genre all within 2023. And I don't know how I'm still standing. Definitely craving that slow you're talking about! So my goal this year was to say "no" more.

I recently moved into a Archer and Olive traveler's size notebook for book notes. Works really well for my Intrigues. Not so much for my thrillers. Will need to find something bigger for those!

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

I hear you. All of it. Pushing is great, but to what end? I hope you can take a bit of a step back now and breathe a little!

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Honoree Corder's avatar

Reading: THE THIRD TO DIE by Allison Brennan (and yay it’s fantastic and the first in a series).

I’m a Bullet Journal gal, also A5. Always best when I can write things down.

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

Yay - Allison is the best! I would love to see yours someday!

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Honoree Corder's avatar

We can compare for sure!

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Terry Price's avatar

I have used fountain pens for many, many years and love writing with them. However, I have had trouble finding journals, planners, Moleskines, etc., where the ink does not bleed through. I typically use a fine nib but still no luck. Any thoughts or experiences? Have a lovely Sunday, J.T.

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

Hi Terry—Clairefontaines are the best that I’ve found for fountain pens. Great laydowns and slightly toothy. And so white!!!

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Terry Price's avatar

Thank you! I will check them out!

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Kate Darracott's avatar

I love the idea of giving up Social Media for Lent. 👏👏

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J.T. Ellison's avatar

Hi Kate—I used to do it all the time but my last two book releases were during Lent so I really couldn’t. It’s a challenge for sure but helpful in many many levels. Six weeks away gives a lot of clarity.

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